But as I said feel what you feel, it is so important. Sometimes I feel hatred or deeply bitter and just let it be felt.
And sometimes I poke those who are behaving really horrendously and really shouldn't. It helps me step back into myself, establish boundaries, but likely clouds the real issues and isn't helpful.
It's damn hard being human in the best of times. ❤️
Yup you’re right.
“Smug” was not the word I should have used to convey my thoughts and feelings about surviving gaslighting.
I’ll leave my comment and humbly accept that I was not precise enough in my use of language.
Oh thank you for reflecting on this.
This is such a damn huge stretch for all of us.
But as I said feel what you feel, it is so important. Sometimes I feel hatred or deeply bitter and just let it be felt.
And sometimes I poke those who are behaving really horrendously and really shouldn't. It helps me step back into myself, establish boundaries, but likely clouds the real issues and isn't helpful.
It's damn hard being human in the best of times. ❤️