In memory of those who “died suddenly” in the United States, October 2-October 9, 2023
Actor Keith Jefferson (“Django Unchained”); chef Michael Chiarello; casting director Nick Wilkinson; Sony Pictures exec Paul Noble; costume designer Shawna Trpcic; actress Jaquelin Carrieri; & more
UNITED STATES
‘Django Unchained’ Actor Keith Jefferson Dead at 53
October 6, 2023
“Django Unchained” actor Keith Jefferson has died at the age of 53. Jefferson’s “Django Unchained” co-star Jamie Foxx broke the sad news on Thursday. Along with posting a pic of himself with Keith outside a private jet, Foxx wrote on Instagram, “Everything hurts right now. Having a hard time looking through these pictures reliving the memories of us having a great time going to miss you man gonna miss you.” In August, Keith revealed that he was battling cancer. Along with a pic of himself in a hospital room, he wrote, “Every now and then God will give you a challenge and leave it up to you to fix it. When I was first diagnosed with cancer I had to stop, pause, and didn’t want to share with anyone. Not my family nor extended family. Today I’m finally at a place to share because my faith is getting stronger. I have a loving family and the best friends in the entire world.”
‘Food Network’ Star Michael Chiarello’s Cause Of Death Revealed
October 8, 2023
Napa, CA - Food Network star and celebrity chef Michael Chiarello has passed away at the age of 61, after being rushed to a hospital. According to his family, Chiarello died surrounded by his loved ones at the Queen of the Valley Medical Center in Napa, where he was receiving treatment for an "acute allergic reaction." The family issued a statement, saying the late chef will be remembered for his "culinary brilliance, boundless creativity, and unwavering commitment to family."
A researcher notes: This death is very odd for many reasons.
1. Chiarello had no known allergies. In fact multiple articles are reporting that “[t]he doctors don’t know what caused the allergic reaction and neither does the family. They may never know.”
2. Chiarello was in the hospital for a week before finally succumbing to the anaphylactic shock. Most allergic reactions are fast and furious and death happens within minutes if not treated. How could they get him to the hospital (alive) where epi pens would be available to treat the allergic reaction, and he survived for a week—and then died of this “allergy”?
Nick Wilkinson, ABC Television and Theater Casting Director, Dies at 69
October 8, 2023
Nick Wilkinson, veteran director of casting for theater and ABC Television, died on the island of Kauai on Sept. 29. He was 69. Wilkinson became a prominent player in regional theater as the longtime casting director for Theatre Communications Group in New York City, known in the 1980s as Central Casting for most theaters across the United States. Wilkinson then became the casting director for the Goodman Theatre in Chicago. He later transitioned from theater to television, becoming ABC Television’s director of casting in New York and then Los Angeles. Wilkinson helped cast major projects in ABC’s movie and miniseries division, along with its daytime division. He took pride in helping previously unknown actors, such as Bruce Willis and Sarah Michelle Gellar, kickstart their rise to stardom.
No cause of death reported.
Paul Noble Dies: Longtime Sony Pictures Marketing Co-Head Was 51
October 7, 2023
Paul Noble, a veteran executive who served as co-head of global theatrical marketing at Sony Pictures Entertainment since 2021, has died. He was 51. The company confirmed to Deadline that Noble died September 9 of bulbar ALS at Ronald Reagan UCLA Medical Center in Westwood. He has been diagnosed in summer 2021. “Paul was a rare and marvelous human being, possessed with an abundance of positivity, warmth, humor and kindness,” Sony Chairman Tom Rothman wrote in an email to staff. “He faced his diagnosis with courage and grace and in doing so set a remarkable example for his family and, indeed, for all of us. To say he will be missed is of course an understatement.”
Shawna Trpcic, Lucasfilm Costume Designer on 'Mandalorian' and 'Ahsoka,' Dies at 56
October 6, 2023
Shawna Trpcic, an Emmy-nominated costume designer best known for her work on numerous "Star Wars" productions including "The Mandalorian" and "Ahsoka," died Wednesday. She was 56. Her cause of death has not been made public, but according to her daughter, Trpcic died suddenly of an unknown illness while in Palm Desert. “Shawna had a deep love and appreciation for 'Star Wars,'" Dave Filoni, showrunner of "Ahsoka," said. "You can see that in every piece of work she did with us. She loved everything about being a part of these stories, including connecting with fans and being a part of that community. I feel like she has always been a part of 'Star Wars.' Her costumes tell a story, providing the suggestion of a life experience that happened before the cameras rolled. I loved collaborating with Shawna, and I will miss her presence."
No cause of death reported.
Note: In 2002, the majority of the Hollywood guilds required Covid “vaccination,” in addition to other testing protocols:
https://deadline.com/2022/02/hollywood-awards-shows-covid-protocols-sagaftra-1234933611/
Jaquelin Carrieri, former queen of the Vendimia de Mendoza, died of a stroke after undergoing cosmetic surgery
October 3, 2023
Jaquelin Carrieri, former queen of the Vendimia of the Mendoza department of San Rafael [Argentina], died last Monday in the city of Los Angeles, California, due to a stroke that is presumed to have been caused by cosmetic surgery. Carrieri, recognized for her career as an actress, represented the district of Punta del Agua and was elected Departmental Viceroy in 1996. She lived in the United States with her two youngest children, and this week she would have turned 49 years old. The news of her death was announced by her loved ones, who reported that Jaquelin underwent surgery and that a complication “generated a clot that took her life,” according to media information.local. “She was a woman who had a talent, being an actress in one of our department's plays that took place at the Roma theater until recently,” they remembered her from the Reinas Vendimiales San Rafael Mendoza site.
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‘Sister Wives' Star Meri Brown Mourns the Death of Her Brother
October 7, 2023
Sister Wives star Meri Brown is mourning the loss of her brother, Adam. The 52-year-old reality star took to Instagram on Friday to announce his death, revealing he had recently made the decision to end chemotherapy amid a cancer battle. "Yesterday, Oct 5, 2023, just 2 months short of his 55th birthday, we lost him," Meri wrote beneath two photos of Adam with his siblings as a child. "I have so many good memories with him over the years, because, siblings. I also have some not so good memories with him through the years, because, siblings."
Tyrese Announces The Death Of His Sister, Shonta Gibson
October 6, 2023
Tyrese is sharing some devastating news. The actor/singer, 44, is mourning the loss of his sister and tributing to her on social media. “I can’t believe I am about to post these 3 letters again…. RIP to my beloved Angel of a big sister Shonta Gibson…,” wrote Tyrese the morning of Wednesday, October 5. “My heart is so heavy posting this because sadly, I’ve lost so many people over the years in this very short window of time….. Tyrese also shared that he skipped the red carpet at Tuesday’s BET Hip-Hop Awards after learning of his sister’s sudden passing. “[ now that you guys know the truth, the Red carpet was really missed because my big sister beloved Shonta Gibson suddenly passed ],” wrote Tyrese.”
No age or cause of death reported.
Jim Poole, Former MLB Pitcher, Dead at 57: 'He Is and Will Remain an Inspiration'
October 8, 2023
Poole passed while surrounded by his family, ESPN reported. He was diagnosed with Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), a neurodegenerative condition also known as Lou Gehrig's Disease, two years ago. Poole was diagnosed with ALS in 2021, and has worked throughout the past years to raise awareness for the illness.
Famed motocross racer passes away at 34 years old
October 4, 2023
The Alessi brothers, Jeff and Mike, are two of the top names in the world of supercross and motocross racing. Jeff Alessi who was the younger of the two brothers competed in several races between 2005 to 2012. The two were best known for their time in the Red Bull KTM team where they rose to the pro rank. Hence the news of Jeff Alessi’s sudden death left the moto racing world and its fans heartbroken. Multiple social media posts confirmed Jeff’s passing. The motocross and supercross racing news outlet Racer X revealed in their tweet that Jeff had died aged 34. The outlet further noted how no further details about the racer’s death are available at the moment. Moreover, Jeff’s friends took to their social media to mourn the racer. An Instagram user named Kenny goes by the username ‘vegaskdub,’ wrote, “Woke up to devastating news this morning from a text from Jeff’s dad. Tony informed me that Jeff passed away last night.”
No cause of death reported.
Jeff Alessi had a heart attack. Walter Hillary wrote on Facebook:
“I woke up to some sad news this morning. Jeff Alessi passed away last night at age 34 in his sleep from a heart attack. Those of us that knew, rode with and worked with him know him as a kind and helpful young man and a damn good MX Racer that loved sharing his passion of the sport. Our condolences go out to his family and friends, the world is a lesser place today RIP "Laser Pointer" #801
Freeskiing Pioneer Robb Gaffney Dies at 52
September 25, 2023
Tahoe City, CA - Freeskiing icon Robb Gaffney died on September 22, four years after being diagnosed with a rare form of bone marrow cancer. He died at his home in Tahoe City, California, surrounded by his family. He was 52. Gaffney was first diagnosed with myelodysplastic disorder—which often leads to leukemia—in September 2019. He underwent years of treatment, including stem cell transplants, but the cancer eventually progressed to acute myeloid leukemia. In June 2022, his doctors identified a recurrence.
Former Alabama running back dies suddenly at 42
October 5, 2023
Former Alabama running back Ray Hudson died at the age of 42; his cause of death is not yet known. Hudson is the third running back from Alabama’s 2002 team who has died over the past two years. Hudson talked about his battle with depression, anger, and memory loss in a 2014 interview with AL.com. “I don’t see where it would’ve come from anything else,” he said at the time. “I have anger issues and depression. I’ve never been on any kind of supplements or steroids. I’ve always been a happy-go-lucky guy my whole life.” No funeral arrangements have been made yet.
No cause of death reported.
A drummer “died suddenly”:
Reported on June 16:
Francisco (Frankie) Diaz de Leon, 44
June 16, 2023
Frankie was called to be with the Lord on the morning of June 4, 2023 at the age of 44, with his family lovingly by his side. Frankie was a highly respected and sought after recording and performing artist. He has recorded and performed drums with well known award winning tejano artists such as Eddie Gonzalez, Gary Hobbs,and Chris Perez. Over the years, Frankie would record and perform with what seemed like an endless
list of cover bands, country, and tejano artists. Given his proficiency with drums and music, he never backed down from a challenge and always nailed it.
Diaz de Leon died of leukemia:
https://www.facebook.com/toni.torres.33;https://www.facebook.com/frank.diazdeleon.315
https://www.gofundme.com/f/frankies-fight-against-leukemia
Just a few weeks ago, he was onstage singing. Now, musicians mourn Quincy's man's death
October 9, 2023
The Boston-area music scene was stunned by the sudden death of Quincy's Joe Bargar, a singer, keyboardist and frontman of the band The Soul Providers. Bargar, 70, died of COVID-19 complications at Beth Israel Deaconess-Milton Hospital on Sept. 29, according to his obituary posted on Legacy.com. Bargar, who lived in Quincy since 2001 and previously lived in Marshfield, was a constant presence on the local music scene. He and his band played regular shows at clubs including The Beehive in Boston, The Corrib in Brighton, The Birch Street Bistro in Roslindale and Sanctuary in Maynard.
Three young children “died suddenly”:
San Jose: Two children die, one injured after falling into swimming pool at residential daycare
October 2, 2023
Two children died and another was injured after they fell into a swimming pool at a residential daycare center in San Jose’s Almaden neighborhood Monday morning, according to authorities. Police confirmed Monday morning that officers had assisted rescuers from San Jose fire with a welfare check on the 1000 block of Fleetwood Drive at 9:05 a.m. After officers were notified that minors had fallen into a swimming pool, medical personnel transported three children to a hospital in critical condition. Two of the children were pronounced dead at a hospital, police said. The third child was expected to survive. No details on the children’s ages or names were released. Online records showed that Happy Happy Home Daycare operates at a site on the 1000 block of Fleetwood Drive. The business is licensed as a small family child care home by the California Department of Social Services; the license allows the facility to care for up to eight children at a time. On a visit to the facility last month, state licensing analysts cited the facility’s licensees, Shahin Shenas and Nina Fathizadeh, for failing to follow requirements documenting their checks every 15 minutes on sleeping children under their care. The citation required the licensees to show their compliance with the regulations in the future. In a January visit, state officials noted that the property’s pool met all of the requirements for such facilities, noting that the pool is surrounded by a five-foot tall fence that could still be seen through. The fence is made from a “hard mesh” material and has a self-closing and self-latching gate, according to the inspection report.
No cause of death reported.
Monroe County Health Department continues meningitis investigation after student death
October 3, 2023
Bloomington, IN - Officials with the Monroe County Coroner’s Office in Bloomington identified the 5-year-old who died as Benjamin Bartalone. Officials said that Bartalone did not die from bacterial meningitis. “The cause of death is pending further testing and preliminary manner of death is natural,” the release said. Officials with the Monroe County Health Department announced Monday that it is continuing to investigate a possible case of meningitis in a 5-year-old student at a local elementary school after he died late last month from “an apparent illness.”
No cause of death reported.
Seven teenagers “died suddenly”:
East Providence High School community mourns sudden loss of sophomore student
October 5, 2023
East Providence, R.I. — An East Providence High School female student died suddenly and unexpected Wednesday morning, Oct. 4, prior to the start of classes, leaving her peers and especially those close to her stunned and saddened. Flags on the EPHS Pawtucket Avenue campus flew at half staff Thursday, Oct. 5, as students returned to school following the news that sophomore C'Anna Ramirez was found in her home unresponsive by family. Asked if he knew if Ramirez was ill or had any medical condition, Black said he did not. He did say that police have so far ruled out personal injury as the cause of death, though the situation is still being investigated.
No age reported.
Savannah-Chatham school district confirms death of football player following sideline emergency
October 4, 2023
The Savannah-Chatham County [GA] Public School System has confirmed a student athlete, Keshaun Allen, has died after suffering a medical emergency during a game Monday night. Allen was 15, a freshman at Windsor Forest High School. "It is with great sadness that Savannah-Chatham County Public School administrators can confirm the loss of one of our students. A student-athlete with the Windsor Forest High School Junior Varsity team suffered a medical emergency on the sideline of a game Monday night, October 2, 2023. The student had played earlier in the game, but had been rotated out of the lineup and was watching from the sideline when the incident occurred. Trainers and EMS staff on site began immediate life-saving measures using CPR and an AED. Those efforts continued during transport to the hospital for further medical attention. Unfortunately, the student was pronounced deceased a short time after reaching Memorial Children’s Hospital. Our deepest sympathies go out to the student’s family and friends.
No cause of death reported.
Freshman student dies suddenly at Northern Indiana high school
October 2, 2023
A freshman student at a South Bend, Indiana, high school died suddenly on Monday in what school district officials referred to as an "isolated health-related incident." The South Bend Community School Corporation said a student at John Adams High School, whose name or age hasn't been released, received immediate medical attention at the school and was later transported to the hospital. "Our hearts go out to the family as well as the staff and students at Adams High School. We are also grateful for our first responders," the district's statement read, in part.
No cause of death reported.
Ohio high school senior Breanne McKean, 17, passed away unexpectedly shortly after being announced as homecoming queen contender
October 4, 2023
Ashland, Ohio - Mapleton High School senior Breanne McKean, 17, passed away unexpectedly “after collapsing during homecoming festivities at Mapleton High School where she was part of the homecoming court,” her obituary states. Local media outlet Ashland Source reports McKean “died after collapsing on the football field during festivities before the game between the [Mapleton] Mounties and South Central [Trojans].” Officials stopped the game during halftime after announcing McKean had suffered a medical emergency. According to NBC News, McKean’s death happened “shortly after she was announced as a contender for homecoming queen.” It's not clear what kind of medical emergency she suffered.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on September 1:
Joseph Samir Zuniga-Barahona, 13
September 1, 2023
Joseph Samir Zuniga-Barahona, age 13, of Austin, Texas passed away on Tuesday, August 29, 2023.
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Gofundme said Zuniga-Barahona’s death was from cancer:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/joseph-zuniga-barahona
Reported on September 14:
Adrian Antonio Juarez, 15
September 14, 2023
Adrian Antonio Juarez, a vibrant and loving young man, passed away on September 8, 2023. Born on April 19, 2008, in San Antonio, Texas, he was just 15 years old. Though his time on this earth was brief, Adrian lived every moment with an infectious joy that touched everyone who knew him.
Reported on June 11
Ali Arizona Betancourt, 16
June 11, 2023
It is with profound sadness that we announce the untimely passing of Ali Arizona Betancourt, a remarkable young soul who touched the lives of all who knew her. She departed from our midst at the tender age of 16, leaving behind cherished memories that will forever be etched in our hearts.
Betancourt died from leukemia:
https://www.facebook.com/solar.betancourt
Three college students “died suddenly”:
Vanderbilt University student Thanvi Dola passed away unexpectedly
October 4, 2023
Nashville, Tenn. - Vanderbilt University is going through the most challenging time after the passing of their most brilliant student, Thanvi Dola, a Charter School of Wilmington graduate, died last week after the family confirmed the news of her sudden passing. The cause of death is not being disclosed by the family. However, an active investigation is being processed to gather information regarding her sudden death. According to the autopsy report, it has been identified that the cause of death is not due to external factors, but it can be because of the medical condition that led to her sudden death. Further test has been conducted to reconfirm the cause of death.
No age or cause of death reported.
Vanderbilt's "vaccination" mandate:
Salvatore Basil Angotti, 21
October 7, 2023
Salvatore Basil Angotti, 21, of Fayetteville, NY, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, October 4, 2023. Sal was presently a senior at the University at Buffalo and was a brother of the Pi Lambda Phi Fraternity.
No cause of death reported.
University at Buffalo ended its “vaccination” mandate last summer:
The State University of New York announced that a COVID-19 vaccine will no longer be mandated for students to attend SUNY’s 64 campuses, effective for summer courses, which coincides with the official end of the national public health emergency by President Biden’s administration.
https://www.buffalo.edu/coronavirus/faqs.html
Milica “Mimi” Konatar, 19
October 1, 2023
Milica “Mimi” Konatar, age 19, returned home to her Heavenly Father on Thursday, September 28th, 2023 in Austin, Texas. In the words of Mimi’s mother, “God sent us an angel 19 years ago, and He has now called her back.” At the time of her passing, she was pursuing a degree in the McCombs School of Business at the University of Texas at Austin where she took part in the McCombs Success Scholar program.
No cause of death reported.
UT Austin's "vaccination" policy:
To safeguard yourself and those around you from COVID-19, we strongly encourage all members of the UT community to receive the vaccine. Like other state government agencies in Texas, University of Texas institutions are required to comply with Governor Abbott’s executive order and cannot mandate COVID-19 vaccines.
https://healthyhorns.utexas.edu/coronavirus_vaccination.html
Five journalists “died suddenly”:
Veteran CBS News editor Mark Ludlow, 63, dies after battle with cancer
October 3, 2023
CBS News lost a beloved family member over the weekend. Mark Jeremy Ludlow, a veteran video editor based in our London bureau, died peacefully on Sunday surrounded by family and friends. Ludlow, as most of us called him, was 63. He died after a relatively brief battle with cancer. Former CBS News anchor Dan Rather, in a final note to Ludlow, said he was "one of the very best television news editors of this or any other generation," and called it an "honor to have you as a friend and colleague." Ludlow started editing for NBC News in the early 1980s, following in the footsteps of his father, videographer Ken Ludlow.
Sad News: 22News Reporter Sy Becker Has Passed away
October 7, 2023
Springfield, Mass. - A heartfelt tribute to a cherished colleague, Sy Becker, a veteran reporter at 22News, who has sadly passed away following a brief illness. Join us as we remember and honor a remarkable career in journalism. Sy Becker, a veteran reporter for WWLP-TV Channel 22, has passed away after a career spanning 60 years. Becker was well-known for his energy, distinctive voice, and movie reviews. He was a beloved figure in Western Massachusetts, particularly during events like the Holyoke St. Patrick's Parade and the Red Cross Hometown Heroes Celebration.
No age or cause of death reported.
Hedda Schupak, Longtime Industry Editor, Dies at 62
October 3, 2023
New York — Long-time jewelry industry journalist Hedda Schupak died Tuesday morning at a Philadelphia-area hospital of complications from lung cancer. She was 62. Longtime friend and fellow industry editor Russ Shor confirmed the news to National Jeweler. Schupak rose to become editor-in-chief of JCK Magazine in 2000 and remained in that role until 2009. In 2010, she became editor of the Centurion Newsletter before announcing her “semi-retirement” last year, telling JCK News Editor Rob Bates that leaving the jewelry industry was “bittersweet.”
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Former ESPN reporter dies at 61
October 3, 2023
Jim Caple, a former MLB reporter who covered 20 World Series, has died at age 61, his wife announced on social media Sunday. Caple worked as a baseball reporter for ESPN, the St. Paul Pioneer-Press, the Seattle Post-Intelligencer, and most recently, The Athletic. “My person, best friend and husband died on Sunday afternoon,” his wife, Vicki, wrote on the Facebook account of her husband, per ESPN. “We all love Jim Caple so much and he loved you. Many great times, laughs and adventures with all of us with Jim. Go in peace my love.” Caple had ALS and dementia, his family said on social media, according to ESPN.
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In a tribute, Caple’s nephew wrote:
“The dementia diagnosis — primary progressive aphasia, a form of frontotemporal dementia — came in April 2021. He’d lost his sense of direction, no longer able to navigate on trips overseas. In social settings, Vicki was talking more, Jim talking less. It’s always little things at first. As if that wasn’t cruel enough, Jim also developed physical symptoms consistent with ALS. Vicki noticed him growing weaker. He’d stopped riding his bike. Stairs were becoming difficult. At night, when he would hold her, she could feel his fingers twitching. Doctors first expressed concern in July 2021, but Jim wasn’t formally diagnosed until March of this year.“
Longtime Dallas sports radio host, producer Mark ‘Friedo’ Friedman has died
October 2, 2023
Longtime Dallas sports radio host and producer Mark Friedman, known by friends, listeners and coworkers as “Friedo,” has died. Friedman’s brother announced the news in a Facebook post on Monday.“ It is with a heavy heart that I share the news of my brother’s passing,” Joel Friedman posted on Facebook. “Many of you knew about his health battle over the past several years, and he had been doing remarkably well considering everything he had gone through.” Friedman had suffered a bout of double pneumonia in the summer of 2020, an ordeal that he detailed thoroughly on The Ticket’s “The Hardline” afternoon show in February of 2021.
No age or cause of death reported.
Two teachers “died suddenly”;
Danielle Marie Lefteau, 31
September 9, 2023
Danielle was born on June 27, 1992 in Austin, TX, to Mike and Rhonda Lefteau. She graduated from the University of Texas at Austin in December 2013. Danielle taught elementary school for Elgin ISD, Austin ISD, and Manor ISD.
No cause of death reported.
From her mother's Facebook post:
Complications with her health came on quickly. We are so very much in shock. Danielle loved being a teacher more than anything.
https://www.facebook.com/danielle.lefteau
An exec “died suddenly”:
West Hartford Community Mourns Death of Earl Exum
October 3, 2023
Family and friends, and the entire West Hartford community, have lost a shining star with the passing of Earl Exum, 55, on Sunday, Oct. 1. Exum, the husband of 19th District Democratic state Rep. Tammy Exum and the father to three sons, was a senior executive at Pratt and Whitney, president of WHAASCO (the West Hartford African American Social and Cultural Organization), member and former chairman of the board of West Hartford Community Interactive, a youth sports coach and scoutmaster, a leader at Asylum Hill Congregational Church. Tammy, Evan, Kyle, and Jonathan Exum shared the following statement: “At a time of unmatched grief, we are comforted by the expressions of sympathy and by the loving embrace of this community. While Earl’s sudden passing has left us shocked, everywhere we turn the joy and devotion he had for his neighbors, colleagues and family is reflected back to us. And, though the loss will remain overwhelming for some time, the greatest tribute that can be paid to him – to any of us – is the loving embrace of each and every individual and the celebration of their unique gifts. Whether in marriage, parenting, friendship, mentoring, or serving that was Earl’s passion; may it always endure.”
No cause of death reported.
Two clerics “died suddenly”:
Bellevue Baptist Church mourns after pastor Tim Shelton dies at 53
October 9, 2023
The Bellevue Baptist Church community is mourning the death of pastor Tim Shelton, who died suddenly on Saturday, Oct. 7, at 53. He is survived by his wife, Susan, and their five sons. Shelton went into cardiac arrest during a triathlon on Saturday, the church said in a statement posted on social media. Shelton has worked as a pastor to young married couples and families since 2002 according to his LinkedIn profile. He also studied at the Mid-America Baptist Theological Seminary in Cordova.
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Chicago Auxiliary Bishop Kevin M. Birmingham dies at 51
October 2, 2023
‘He passed away in his sleep,’ according to an archdiocese spokesperson. It wasn’t clear what caused his death. Kevin Birmingham, an auxiliary bishop under Cardinal Blase Cupich, has died, the Archdiocese of Chicago confirmed Monday. “He passed away in his sleep,’’ said archdiocese spokesperson Yasmin Quiroz.
No cause of death reported.
Four policemen “died suddenly”:
Del City police officer dies due to unexpected medical problem
October 7, 2023
The Del City [Okla.] Police Department confirms the loss of one of its officers this morning in a social media post. The officers name is Lieutenant Matt Henry and has served for 17 years. Police said Henry unexpectedly died due to a medical issue. The officer is remembered as a tenacious investigator and compassionate supervisor. Henry leaves behind a wife and daughter.
No age or cause of death reported.
Old Bridge Police Department mourns officer's death
October 5, 2023
Old Bridge [NJ] police officers are mourning the loss of one of their own after Patrolman Peter “Pete” C. Benedict, 31, died Monday at his township home. In a post Tuesday on the Old Bridge Police Department's Facebook page announcing the officer’s “untimely death," Acting Police Chief Donald Fritz, Jr. wrote that Benedict died "unexpectedly," "His sudden passing has us in shock," the post says. "We ask that you keep Pete’s family and friends in your hearts as we go through this difficult time. We here at the Police Department are blessed to have always had such a supportive community behind us. We will need that now more than ever as we try to move forward. Rest in peace Pete … we’ve got it from here." No cause of death has been released.
No cause of death reported.
Delaware County Park Police Officer Dies While On Duty
October 2, 2023
Delaware County, PA — A member of the Delaware County Park Police Department died suddenly while on duty over the weekend, according to authorities. Patrolman Joseph Montgomery died from natural causes on Friday, according to the Delaware County Daily Times. Montgomery joined Delaware County Park Police in August 2022. Before that, he spent more than 30 years serving as a paramedic with the Riddle Memorial Hospital and the Mainline Health System, as well as the Fire Chief of Edgmont Fire Company.
No age or cause of death reported.
Reported on September 29:
Retired Minneapolis police Sgt. Peter Jackson is remembered as courageous investigator with a zest for life
September 29, 2023
Those who knew Peter Jackson during his time at the Minneapolis [MN] Police Department remember him as much for his love for life as for his work as an officer. "He really lived life. He did so many things," said Mike Furnstahl, a friend and retired Hennepin County prosecutor. "He was a pilot. He scuba dived. He was an athlete. He built his own house and designed it and was a contractor on it." Jackson, a retired Minneapolis Police Department sergeant, died unexpectedly July 29 of a heart attack. He was 66 years old.
Longtime Times-News newspaper carrier Stuckey dies at 36
October 6, 2023
Hendersonville, NC - A longtime Hendersonville Times-News newspaper carrier died following a sudden illness while on vacation with his family on Sept. 16. Jarrett Stuckey of Mills River delivered papers in the Carolina Village area for the past seven years and had other routes for several years before that one. He was 36. Jeffrey Taylor is the district manager who is in charge of newspaper deliveries in Hendersonville and Asheville. He told the Times-News on Oct. 2 that he was stunned when he heard about Stuckey's death. Thomas Horton wrote, "Seen him come through on paper deliveries every morning, always with a smile and energy. Shocking to learn he’d passed so young. My sincerest condolences to his family."
No cause of death reported.
Three first responders “died suddenly”:
VA Battalion Chief Collapses at Work, Dies
October 6, 2023
Richmond [Va.] Battalion Chief Earl Dyer suffered a sudden medical emergency while at work. He was rushed to a local hospital, but could not be revived. Dyer just celebrated his 40th anniversary of joining the fire department. “Chief Dyer is remembered as a man of the highest ethics, integrity, and possessing a strong moral compass. He brought his own values to the organization in ways too many to enumerate, Chief of Fire Melvin D. Carter said in a statement.
No cause of death reported.
According to this article, “This is the third fire department loss in less than three months”:
https://www.nbc12.co:m/2023/10/05/richmond-battalion-fire-chief-earl-dyer-dies/
Bucks County EMT, Firefighter Dies At 27
October 6, 2023
Bucks Co., PA - Glen D. Golembeski II, an emergency medical technician in Bensalem, died after a period of illness on Sunday, Oct. 1, according to loved ones and former colleagues. He was 27. A Doylestown native, Golembeski was a 2014 graduate of Central Bucks East High School, his obituary says. He went on to study forensic science at West Virginia University, according to his Facebook.
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Golembeski died of liver cancer. In a 2021 GoFundMe, he wrote the following:
“Hi, my name is Glen - On Aug 4th I was diagnosed with stage 3 liver cancer that is inoperable and will need a full liver transplant within the next 4 years. Shocked is to say the least as I am 26 years old living life to the fullest, for it to come to a sudden halt for myself, my family, and friends. I started chemo right away and started the journey of finding which hospital would take on my case as I have a very rare cancer. I came across 3 hospitals in the US to see if I would even fit into their programs. I have landed at MD Anderson in Houston, Texas. MD Anderson has only seen this presentation of cancer in a small handful of persons. MD Anderson has taken on my case and given me hope.”
https://www.gofundme.com/f/living-life-while-waitin--on-a-liver
Family, friends gather to lay Tri-State firefighter to rest
October 5, 2023
Cincinnati, Ohio - A CVG firefighter and EMT was laid to rest Thursday after he died from cancer. Mark Hernandez, 54, died about one week ago from an occupational cancer, leukemia, according to the International Association of Fire Fighters. Occupational cancers occur when someone is exposed to carcinogenic (cancer-causing) agents in the workplace, the Cancer Council says. Mark was diagnosed with cancer around Thanksgiving 2021. His kids say he fought hard and kept that positivity even while battling non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma.
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Forestry Program manager and Colville Tribes member, 'Pugs' Holford, dies at 48
October 6, 2023
Okanogan County, Wash. — The Colville Tribes have announced that Colville Confederated Tribes councilmember and Forestry Program manager, Joseph "Pugs" Holford has died at the age of 48. Pugs worked in forestry management in New Mexico and then Colville. He also served as Superintendent of the Bureau of Indian Affairs for Colville's agency. The Chairman of the Colville Confederated Tribes, Jarred-Michael Erickson, said, “It was a shock to hear of Pugs’ sudden passing. Many of us had just seen him speak at a retirement lunch and noted how happy and healthy he seemed. It is a reminder to cherish every minute we get to spend with our loved ones. Our hearts and prayers go out to his family and the many friends and co-workers he leaves behind.” Over the past several months, multiple influential members of the Confederated Tribes of the Colville Indian Reservation have died. On Jan. 13, Virgil "Smoker" Marchand died at 71-years-old, Mike Finley died on Aug. 9 and Gene Joseph passed away Sept. 25.
No cause of death reported.
Two nurses “died suddenly”:
Stephanie Ann Wasniewski, 39
October 6, 2023
Stephanie Iverson Wasniewski, of Naperville [IL], died suddenly October 2nd at the age of 39. After graduating with a degree in nursing, she began her career in healthcare with Maxim Healthcare in Orland Park. For 12 years, Stephanie had a full professional career as a nurse and was a clinical manager.
No cause of death reported.
David Bruce Marsh, 47
October 5, 2023
David Bruce Marsh, born in Indianapolis, Ind., to Marvin Bruce and Katherine L. (Hershey) Marsh on Feb. 23, 1976, passed away on Sept. 28, 2023 in Shelbyville, Tenn. David graduated from Valley View High School and then earned a Bachelor of Science in Nursing from Wright State University, which sparked a long career of caring for others. David was recognized as New Mexico Rural Nurse of the Year (2010) by the New Mexico Center for Nursing Excellence and was a member of the Sigma Theta Tau International Nursing Honors Society.
No cause of death reported.
A lawyer “died suddenly”:
Assistant DA Matthew Busby dies unexpectedly
October 5, 2023
Natchez, Miss. — Assistant District Attorney Matthew Busby, who worked alongside Sixth District Attorney Shameca Collins and others in the office, died unexpectedly on Thursday. Busby suffered a heart attack in September and posted on Facebook in mid-September that he had had a heart attack and was in the hospital for two weeks. “They hit me with a defibrillator between 18 and 26 times … So now people think I’m super human. I had to explain I wasn’t super human, just a Marine. Recovery is slow and ongoing,” Busby wrote. Paul Sullivan, also an assistant district attorney in the Sixth District office, said he and his co-workers were stunned by the unexpected news of Busby’s death on Thursday. He said Collins was in Liberty, where Busby lived, to be with his family.
According to a post by a friend, Busby was 52:
Former Port Orchard Mayor Lary Coppola, 73, dies after sudden cancer diagnosis
October 3, 2023
As a businessman, elected official, car enthusiast and grandfather, Lary Coppola will be deeply missed, say those from across the Kitsap Peninsula who have known him for decades. Coppola, executive director of the Port of Allyn and a former mayor of Port Orchard [WA], died Saturday morning at St. Joseph Medical Center in Tacoma several weeks after being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, said Dee Coppola, Lary's wife. "This was shocking," Dee Coppola said. "People talked to him two weeks ago, and we didn't even realize how sick he was."
Two coaches “died suddenly”:
‘R.I.P. Coach' Mike Krause dead: Beloved wrestling coach dies suddenly just weeks ahead of planned tour as fans praise ‘legend’
October 6, 2023
Mike Krause, the head coach of the wrestling team at Detroit Catholic Central High School in Novi, Michigan, about 33 miles west of Detroit, died on Thursday. "Mike's life was defined by his unwavering love for his family, and children, an unparalleled passion for wrestling, and a remarkable ability to connect with people," a GoFundMe read. “He was known as 'Coach Krause' to so many as he was a mentor, a motivator, and a friend to tens of thousands of young men and women across our nation, including our beloved Shamrocks. A cause of death was not immediately revealed. Krause's death came weeks after he was set to appear at Sutherland, Nebraska's Youth Wrestling showcase from November 3 to 5
No age or cause of death reported.
Jesuit football player loses parents within months; community rallies around
September 29, 2023
New Orleans, LA - Jesuit High School and the community are loving on one of its own right now. After 10th-grade football player Nathan Hamrick lost both his parents within just months of each other, it sparked an outpouring of people wanting to help financially through this difficult time. Ken Hamrick, Nathan's uncle and now caretaker tells WDSU, he and his family are still barely wrapping their minds around the loss of his brother Jason, Nathan's father, and Theresa, Nathan's mother. “About a year and a half ago, she went in for what she thought was an issue from COVID with her breathing and found out it was stage 4 lung cancer," Hamrick said. Hamrick who wears a bracelet with the name "Theresa Strong" says the family was engulfed in supporting Theresa through her battle with cancer when they unexpectedly lost Jason. Jason was an assistant football coach at Jesuit High School and died suddenly from a heart attack on June 28.
Two hikers “died suddenly”:
Hiker dies following medical emergency on Camel’s Hump
October 6, 2023
Huntington, Vt. - A hiker on Camel’s Hump died Thursday afternoon following a medical emergency. Richmond Rescue officials say they got the call just after 3 p.m. that the individual had collapsed and CPR was in progress. A 13-member rescue team headed up the Burrows Trail and reached the victim over halfway up the mountain. They say the victim had died by the time they arrived. The recovery operation wrapped up after 7 p.m.
No age or cause of death reported.
Hiker dies after suffering medical emergency on trail near Pine Cove
September 30, 2023
Palm Springs, CA - A hiker died Saturday on the San Jacinto Peak trail near Pine Cove, the Riverside County Fire Department announced. Firefighters responded to the trail around 11:40 a.m. Saturday where they tried to make access to the hiker, who had suffered a medical emergency. The Riverside County Sheriff's Department Rescue 9 helicopter was unable to access the area where the hiker was located, and the victim died before first responders arrived, according to the fire department. The hiker's identity was not immediately known.
No age or cause of death reported.
Two killed in “vaxxidents”:
Bicycle rider dies after falling in 1200 block Alki Avenue
October 7, 2023
Seattle, Wash. - 6:04 PM: SFD medics and SPD officers are in the 1200 block of Alki Avenue SW, where witnesses told them a bicycle rider fell “out of the blue” while riding on the trail. The rider, described as a male adult, is reported to have hit his head and suffered potential life-threatening injuries, for which he’s being treated right now. Avoid the area. 6:24 PM: Medical discussion over emergency radio indicates the rider, described as in his mid-40s, is still in bad shape and the reason he suddenly fell is a mystery. Medics are still working to revive him. 7:51 PM: As noted in comments, radio exchanges indicate the rider did not survive. We don’t have any other information about circumstances and it would be up to the Medical Examiner’s Office to determine whether a medical incident preceding the fall was to blame, or an injury from it. 8:42 PM: SFD has also officially confirmed to us that the rider died, and updates his age to “approximately 40.”
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Police: Woman dies in Springfield Township crash following medical emergency while driving
October 4, 2023
Springfield Township, Ohio — Springdale police said there is no foul play suspected after a body was discovered near a road early Wednesday morning in Springfield Township. According to investigators, a woman in her 50s had a medical emergency and crashed her vehicle near Hamilton Avenue and Struble Road. The crash happened before 3 a.m. The scene is now clear and the roadway is back open. The person's identity has not been released.
No cause of death reported.
Help Lift up the Coon Family (GoFundMe Shawn Cokn, 35)
October 3, 2023
Shawn was a loving father, husband, son brother, and friend. His wife Lynae and his two sons, Brantley and Carter, meant the world to him. He loved spending time with his family, fishing, golfing with his best friends, watching any Cleveland [Ohio] sports team, and playing with his dog Beretta. Anyone who met him was instantly taken by his infectious personality. He was always smiling and could make friends with anyone. His life was cut short just a few days after his 35th birthday due to a catastrophic brain hemorrhage. The entire family is absolutely devastated, and we are asking for you to help in any way possible.
Reported on October 1:
Legacy of Athens man who died recently living on through his Field of Dreams
October 1, 2023
Athens, Texas - If you build it, they will come. That was the lifelong dream of David Cornelius of Athens, who died this month at the age of 41 after a battle with leukemia. Before his diagnosis, he built an entire baseball field on his property, fit with dugouts, a scoreboard, and even a concession stand. “I thought he was crazy, but somebody as ambitious as he was, there was no stopping him,” said Tim Wilson, a friend of Cornelius. “He was talking about it in the hospital, that he wanted to have it out on the baseball field, I mean this was his dream, so that’s what we wanted to do for him,” said his son David Cornelius, Jr.
Timothy J. Daddario, 65
October 8, 2023
Timothy J. Daddario, 65, suddenly passed away on April 18, 2023 in Albuquerque, NM.
No cause of death reported.
Peter Wesley Newton, 68
October 7, 2023
Baton Rouge, LA - Peter Wesley Newton passed away suddenly on Sunday morning October 1, 2023 with Carol, the love of his life, by his side. He was 68 years old.
No cause of death reported.
Rob Brola, 36
October 7, 2023
Fayetteville, New York - Rob Brola, 36, passed away on September 29, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Christopher Halloran, 50
October 7, 2023
Camillus, NY - Chris, 50, of Geddes is now with Lord after passing away unexpectedly.
No cause of death reported.
Captain Patrick John Cassidy, 36
October 7, 2023
Captain Patrick John Cassidy, age 36, of Syracuse [NY], died Wednesday, October 4th with his wife and children by his side. Patrick passed away at home after a nine-month battle with lung cancer.
Lena Celena Hall
October 6, 2023
Dear Family and Friends, It is with a heavy heart and deep sadness that I share with you the heart breaking news of the sudden passing of our Aunt Lena Celena Hall on yesterday October 5th. She will greatly missed.
No age or cause of death reported.
Hall was “vaccinated” and proudly proclaimed her “vaccination” status with a frame that read, “Protect yourself and the lives of others”:
Harold J. McHenry, 52
October 6, 2023
Tarentum, Pennsylvania - Harold James McHenry, better known as "Jim or Howie," age 52, passed away unexpectedly at home Monday, Oct. 2, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Kyla Sullivan, 37
October 6, 2023
Phoenix, AZ - It is with broken hearts and many tears, we said goodbye to our beautiful daughter Kyla Brie Sullivan. Kyla had a fantastic work ethic, no matter the job, Human Resources, division one softball coach, or managing several testing sights during the pandemic.
No cause of death reported.
Artur Kostrubyak, 22
October 6, 2023
Chicago, IL - Artur Kostrubyak passed away after a short illness on Thursday, October 5; he was 22 years old.
No cause of death reported.
Anthony Latorre, 1 week
October 6, 2023
Chicago, IL - Beloved son of Yvonne Martinez and Anthony Eric Latorre.
No cause of death reported.
Colin P. McInerney, 21
October 6, 2023
Chicago, IL - Colin P. McInerney, age 21 of Chicago, passed away unexpectedly October 2, 2023. In lieu of flowers, donations to Christmas Without Cancer would be appreciated.
No cause of death reported.
Weston Palazzolo, 29
October 6, 2023
Chicago, IL - Weston Palazzolo, age 29, of Sherman, passed away on Friday, September 29, 2023 at his residence.
No cause of death reported.
Timothy VonderSmith, 50
October 6, 2023
Timothy VonderSmith, 50, of Downers Grove [IL], at rest suddenly, on October 4, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Daniel F. Miller III, 44
October 6, 2023
Brookfield, NY - Daniel F. Miller III, 44, passed away unexpectedly at his home on Sunday, October 1, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Brandon Daniel Calderon, 39
October 6, 2023
Murfreesboro, Tennessee - Brandon Daniel Calderon, age 39, was greeted at Heaven’s gate by many loving relatives and friends on October 2, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Theresa Denise Picone, 59
October 6, 2023
Franklin, Tennessee - Theresa Denise Picone dedicated wife, devoted family member, cherished friend and admired community supporter passed away on October 2, 2023 at the age of 59. Her unexpected passing leaves a void and emptiness in all who knew her. She was a person of sharing and devotion to all who’s lives she touched.
No cause of death reported.
Michael Robert Hartley
October 6, 2023
Saint Charles, Illinois - Michael Robert Hartley unexpectedly passed away on September 29, 2023. Donations may be made in Mike's honor to: CTE Research, Boston University Clinical Research in Neurodegenerative Disease.
No age or cause of death reported.
Cameron Joe Bailey, 47
October 5, 2023
Gardnerville, NV - It is with great sorrow and a heavy heart to announce the unexpected passing of Cameron Joe Bailey, age 47, on September 28, 2023, at his home in Gardnerville, NV. Cameron was one of a kind and will be desperately missed by all who knew him. Our hearts are broken by this unexpected loss.
No cause of death reported.
Cody J. Albright, 31
October 5, 2023
Cody J. Albright, 31, of Mt. Pleasant [Penn.], passed away unexpectedly Monday, Oct. 2, 2023, at his home.
No cause of death reported.
Gary Lee Fresh, 68
October 5, 2023
Gary Lee Fresh, 68, of Butler [PA], passed away unexpectedly of natural causes, Tuesday evening, Oct. 3, 2023, at his home.
No cause of death reported.
Mildred E. 'Millie' 'Popcorn' Pappas, 59
October 5, 2023
Mildred E. 'Millie' 'Popcorn' Pappas, 59, of North Charleroi [Penn.] passed away unexpectedly on Monday, September 25, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Gary 'Kevin' Brown, 61
October 5, 2023
Gary 'Kevin' Brown, 61, of Mesa, Arizona, passed away in his home unexpectedly on September 26th, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Steven William Carlson, 38
October 5, 2023
Steven William Carlson, 38 years old, of San Tan Valley, Arizona, sadly passed away at home of an unexpected health issue on 10/02/2023.
No cause of death reported.
Sydney Pollock-Jenkins, 27 days
October 5, 2023
Sydney Pollock-Jenkins, age 27 days, of San Antonio, Texas, passed away on Sunday, October 2, 1994.
No cause of death reported.
Eugene "Genie" Petro Kornota, 24
October 5, 2023
Eugene "Genie" Petro Kornota, 24, passed away unexpectedly at home in Chicago's Edgewater neighborhood, September 29, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Shalom Peters, 37
October 5, 2023
Skokie, Illinois - Shalom Peters, age 37, of Morton Grove, died Tuesday, October 3, 2023, unexpectedly, in Park Ridge.
No cause of death reported.
Aiden Marquise Landry, 15 months
October 5, 2023
Aiden Marquise Landry, 15 months old, was born on June 24, 2022, at Houston's [TX] Memorial Hermann Hospital. Tragically, Aiden recently passed away on September 24, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Chap Knox Robinson, 3 months
October 5, 2023
Austin, Texas - In Chap’s (fondly called Chappie by his family) brief time on this earth, he was constantly surrounded and embraced by so many who loved him dearly. His life was one filled with the purest, most innocent love and joy which could always be seen on his smiling face and beautiful big eyes.
No cause of death reported.
Jerry Glenn Groves Jr., 48
October 5, 2023
Jerry Glenn Groves Jr. 48, passed away on September 28, at his home in Franklin, KY.
No cause of death reported.
Michael David Drew (Mike), 72
October 5, 2023
Michael David Drew (Mike), 72 of Montgomery, IL, passed away suddenly on Sunday, October 1 due to cardiac arrest.
Nevaeh Takia Robinson, 18
October 4, 2023
Charlotte, North Carolina - Nevaeh Takia Robinson, 18, recently passed away on September 27, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Bonnie Jean (King) Buttermore, 73
October 4, 2023
Bonnie Jean (King) Buttermore, age 73, died unexpectedly but peacefully in her home in Morrell [Penn.], on Friday morning, Sept. 29, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Jerome "Jerry" Heinz, 76
October 4, 2023
Renfrew, Pennsylvania - Jerome "Jerry" Heinz, 76, of Butler, passed away doing what he loved - his weekly exercise on the Montour Trail - on Saturday, Sept. 30, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Susan Russell Benson, 61
October 4, 2023
North Huntingdon, Pennsylvania - It is with great sadness that the family of Susan Russell Benson, of Shawnee, Kan., announces her sudden passing that occurred July 19, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Larry C. "Butch" Spiewak, 43
October 4, 2023
Turtle Creek, Pennsylvania - Of Penn Hills, age 43, died unexpectedly on Monday, October 2, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Carol Levine, 51
October 4, 2023
Carol Levine, of San Antonio, TX, passed away on Saturday, September 30, 2023. Carol was born on May 8, 1972 to Albert R. Levine Jr. and Guadalupe Levine in San Antonio, TX.
No cause of death reported.
Note: Comments on the obituary mention she worked at USAA, which had a “vaccination” mandate.
Veronica Ann Mata, 52
October 4, 2023
Veronica Ann Mata was born on March 27, 1971, in San Antonio, TX and went to be with the Lord on September 16, 2023, at the age of 52.
No cause of death reported.
Note: A Facebook page mentions Mata’s unexpected passing and that she worked for a home health care company:
https://www.facebook.com/veronica.suarez.31542
Robert J. Hollibaugh, 71
October 4, 2023
Robert J. Hollibaugh, 71, of Rome, NY, passed away unexpectedly on October 1, 2023, with his wife by his side. Following graduation from high school, Robert was employed as a millworker, and he was also employed as a home healthcare aide by Caregivers of Utica, New York.
No cause of death reported.
Ashlee Ann Krauss, 29
October 4, 2023
Ashlee Ann Krauss, 29, of Manchester, NH, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, September 30th, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Angel Javier Parra, 21
October 4, 2023
Angel Javier Parra, 21, of Round Rock, Texas, passed away on September 30, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Parra’s mother noted his "sudden and unexpected death they were not prepared for at such a young age" on GoFundMe:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/hytd45-angels-funeral-expenses
Dale Louis Tiberie, 66
October 4, 2023
Dale Louis Tiberie, 66, of Scenery Hill (West Pike Run Township) [Penn.], passed away Monday, October 2, 2023, in Whitehall Borough Nursing and Rehab Center, after a courageous, year-long battle with cancer.
Bonnie Jean "BJ" McGiffert (Miller), 67
October 4, 2023
Scottsdale, Arizona - Bonnie Jean "BJ" McGiffert (Miller), lost her short but hard-fought battle with liver cancer on September 28, 2023 at 3:35 pm.
Erica Jean Dimick, 52
October 3, 2023
Erica Jean Dimick, from San Antonio, Texas, passed away on September 22, 2023, at 52 years of age after her courageous battle with ovarian cancer over the past two years. Upon graduation she attended The University of the Incarnate Word where she majored in Nursing and graduated in 1992 as an RN and began working at The Children’s Hospital of San Antonio, formerly Christus Santa Rosa. She served as a RN for nearly a decade working in children’s day surgery before transitioning to full-time homemaker.
Cynthia "Cindy" May Dann, 65
October 2, 2023
Cynthia "Cindy" May Dann, 65, of Baldwinsville, NY, passed away suddenly at Crouse Hospital on Thursday, September 28, 2023, following a brief illness.
No cause of death reported.
Tonya M. Godfrey, 66
October 2, 2023
Webster, NY - Passed away peacefully, surrounded by her family, on September 29, 2023, at the age of 66, after a brief and unforgiving illness.
No cause of death reported.
Joanne Steves Sims, 63
October 2, 2023
Joanne Steves Sims, 63, fondly known as Jo, passed away on September 22, 2023, in Austin, Texas, after a courageous battle with cancer. Our family would like to express our gratitude to all those who helped Jo navigate her health journey, honoring her wish to always focus on that delicate balance of the quality and quantity of life. We are forever grateful to: Dr. Robyn McCarty, Dr. Sunyoung Lee and the wonderful staff at MD Anderson Cancer Center.
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David “Dave” John Von Derau, 59
October 2, 2023
Reno, NV - David John “Dave” Von Derau, 59, of Woodfords, CA, passed away at Renown Regional Medical Center on August 5, 2023, due to complications from sepsis.
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Reported on October 1:
Mateo Marin Vasquez, 1 day
October 1, 2023
Mateo Marin Vasquez, age 0 days, of Austin, Texas, passed away on Friday, September 29, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Beverly Diane Graves Carter Edie, 69
October 1, 2023
It is with a heavy heart and great sadness that we have lost our beloved sister, mother, grandmother. Beverly Diane Graves Carter Edie went to her eternal home on September 4, 2023 after a brief illness at the age of 69. She was born in Baton Rouge, La. She has resided in Albany, Oregon for the past 30 years. She was so loved by everyone, she never met a stranger and always had a smile on her face.
No cause of death reported.
Richard James Arena, 62
October 1, 2023
Richard James Arena, 62, of Syracuse [NY], passed away unexpectedly at home on September 25, 2023. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Rescue Mission, American Heart Association, CNY SPCA, Humane Association, or a charity of one's choice.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on September 30:
Stefany Mondragon, 34
September 30, 2023
It is with great sadness that the family of Stefany Mondragon announce her passing, age 34, on September 25th, 2023, in Austin, TX.
No cause of death reported.
Mondragon “died suddenly” - a Facebook post for a tournament and plate sale to benefit the family because of her "unexpected death":
https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=710629317759416&set=a.483094743846209
Reported on September 28:
Rhonda Machel Newbury, 61
September 28, 2023
With heavy hearts, we announce the death of Rhonda Machel Newbury of Austin, Texas, who passed away on September 25, 2023 at the age of 61. She was a retired Peace officer for Tarrant County Texas.
No cause of death reported.
Newbury’s husband's Facebook speaks of her death as being sudden:
https://www.facebook.com/james.newbury.77
Demira S. Wyatt, 45
September 28, 2023
Demira S. Wyatt, age 45, of Austin, Texas, passed away on Monday, September 25, 2023.
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Reported on September 27:
Anne Elizabeth 'Liz' Dunaway Alch, 64
September 27, 2023
Baton Rouge, La—Anne Elizabeth 'Liz' Dunaway Alch passed away unexpectedly on September 27, 2023, surrounded by her family. She was 64 years old.
No cause of death reported.
Note: Alch died from a suspected brain aneurysm, as reported by submitter’s family member.
Terry Wayne Wright, 63
September 27, 2023
Terry Wayne Wright, 63, of Round Rock, Texas, entered into eternal peace on Friday, September 22, 2023. Terry dedicated his life to helping others, but his true calling was to be a father. He offered unwavering support, guidance, and care to his daughters throughout his life.
No cause of death reported.
Wright was “vaccinated”:
https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=328272052322604&set=ecnf.100054194341894
Reported on September 26:
Joel Jose Vazquez, 22
September 26, 2023
Joel J. Vazquez born on April 4, 2001, in Austin, Texas, was our only child. He was a friendly and optimistic guy with a wise soul who loved and respected nature and the outdoors. He had set goals to live a life full of adventure and learning. He was a proud Texas Aggie studying Environmental Science and planned to graduate in the class of 2023. From an early age he taught himself to fish, visiting the creeks, rivers, and lakes he could get to, and introduced many friends to the joys of fishing. His hands were never idle and became proficient at tying fishing flies. As a skillful boater and fisherman, he devoted his time to learn about waterways and fish habitat. He graduated from McNeil High School class of 2019 where he played lacrosse for four years. Joel was diagnosed with a rare and unforgiving brain stem tumor and on September 18, 2023 passed away peacefully at his home after a two-year battle.
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Reported on September 24:
Angel Thaddeus Martinez, 1 week
September 24, 2023
San Antonio, Texas - Angel Thaddeus Martinez was born on September 13, 2023, and went to be with the Lord on September 20, 2023. Baby Angel gave us a lifetime of love during his short time on earth and will be missed by all who loved him deeply.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on September 21:
Jennifer Colleen Wright, 51
September 21, 2023
Jennifer Colleen Wright, born on July 28, 1972, in Vicenza, Italy, to her military family, embarked on her final journey on September 15, 2023, after a valiant battle with cervical cancer. She was a beloved wife, devoted mother, cherished daughter, and a compassionate friend to many.
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Michael Patrick McQuain, 51
September 21, 2023
Mike graduated from AFCENT International High School, Brunssum the Netherlands, and then Colorado State University, Fort Collins, Colorado. Over his information technology years between Digital Island - Hacker Prevention Specialist and fixing Home Away network problems lying on his parents’ couch, he found the fulfillment of a professional lifetime and a cohort of many comrades that he respected and valued beyond measure. Mike is greatly missed and survived by the love of his life Samantha Abigail Digo McQuain, whom he pursued for nine years and married on Valentine’s Day 2014, and their two sons Matthew Jacob and Mason Grey. In lieu of flowers please donate to your favorite charity or to: Defeating Brain Cancer Step By Step
https://headforthecure.org/
No cause of death reported.
Reported on September 20:
Dr. Glenn Samuel Carter, 71
September 20, 2023
Dr. Glenn Samuel Carter, 71, of Leander, Texas, passed into his Savior’s presence on Tuesday morning, September 12, 2023 from Cornerstone Hospital after a 15-month-long illness. He met his wife, Annette Born Carter, in 1976 at a Campus Crusade for Christ conference in Dallas, TX. They married a year later in July of ’77. Glenn chose to delay the pursuit of further medical education so he and Annette could join the staff of Campus Crusade for Christ to work with college students.
No cause of death reported.
Tayler Alvillar, 33
September 20, 2023
Tayler Alvillar, age 33, of Georgetown, Texas, passed away on September 15, 2023, due to a complication from cancer. Tayler loved her daughter, Briella, more than anything.
Reported on September 18:
Roy Vasquez Luna Jr., 57
September 18, 2023
Roy Vasquez Luna Jr., age 57 of Austin, Texas, was called home to the Kingdom of Christ on August 20, 2023. He is survived by his son Roy Luna III. Throughout his entire life, Roy was very outgoing and humorous, and he was a “jack of all trades, master of none” kind of guy. He will be greatly missed by all of his friends and family.
No cause of death reported.
Luna “died suddenly,” from Facebook:
Roy was a great friend and work colleague. He was always there to listen and offer great advice. He loved to laugh, and to cook, and to eat great food. He enjoyed life. He was a great people person and due to his untimely death by sudden health circumstances he will be missed by many. I will miss you and never forget you.
Reported on September 17:
Cathryn Leigh Arceneaux, 41
September 17, 2023
Baton Rouge, La—God wanted another Angel in heaven. Cathryn Leigh Arceneaux has left us way too early at the age of 41. Throughout her earthly years, Cathryn's goal was to make others happy. To know her was to love her. Donations in memory of Cathryn may be made to: The American Heart Association of Baton Rouge.
No cause of death reported.
Jenna McGill, 30
September 17, 2023
Baton Rouge, La—Jenna McGill, age 30, passed away on September 8, 2023. She was an old soul at heart. If asked, any family member probably will tell you that at some point in her short life, she was their favorite. She was fun, funny, and cared deeply about her family and close friends.
No cause of death reported.
Lori Kristine Sibley, 39
September 17, 2023
Lori Kristine Sibley, 39, of Greensburg, LA, passed into eternal glory Wednesday, September 13 of 2023. During the early days of her diagnosis, she tearfully reflected on the words of a song, ''Whatever may pass and whatever lies before me, let me be singing when the evening comes''. How her personal God granted the desire of her heart! She kept singing through the darkest hours. The family is grateful for the beautiful tributes that have been posted and texted.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on September 13:
Samuel James Castillo, Jr., 38
September 13, 2023
Our Beloved Samuel James Castillo, Jr., age 38 of Kyle, Texas, passed away on Wednesday, September 6th, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
A Facebook post from his friends mentions his death was sudden and unexpected - also the fact they used to work at Walmart and HEB together, which had “vaccination” mandates:
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100006975942345
Amy Shaw Parekh, 55
September 13, 2023
Austin, Texas - On September 7th, 2023, Amy Shaw Parekh passed away peacefully in the presence of her husband, Sachin. She fought a valiant and courageous battle with kidney cancer for the past two years, ultimately succumbing to the awful disease. She is survived by her husband Sachin Parekh and son Evan Parekh.
Reported on September 12:
Aaron Diaz, 53
September 12, 2023
Aaron Diaz, 53, passed away September 9, 2023 at home in Paige, Texas. The family of Aaron Diaz wishes to extend our sincere thanks to H-E-B and all the partners, the medical team, family, friends, and Providence Funeral Home for all of the love and support.
No cause of death reported.
Note: HEB is a huge grocery chain Texas. It had a “vaccination” mandate and still pushes the jabs constantly from its pharmacies.
Reported on September 11:
Ernest McDade Jr., 56
September 11, 2023
Ernest McDade, Jr. was born on March 13, 1967, at Brackenridge hospital in Austin, Texas. Ernest leaves to cherish his memory, his wife and best friend, Stephanie Alexander, his two sons, Ernest Joshua McDade and Shawn McKinney, three daughters, Kalita “KC” Collins, Deandra Taylor, and Americah.
No cause of death reported.
Note: McDade’s wife's Facebook page speaks of his sudden death and that she was vaccinated.
Paul Gugliuzza, 60
September 11, 2023
Olympic Valley, CA - The life of Paul T. Gugliuzza was sadly cut short on September 2nd 2023 after a hard fought battle with cancer.
Paul J. Behrens, 73
September 11, 2023
Paul was a volunteer with Florida Special Olympics and Metropolitan Ministries in Tampa, FL. He loved all animals, especially dogs, and rescued many dogs over the years. Memorial gifts may be given to Moffitt Cancer Center, Tampa, FL at www.moffitt.org
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Reported on September 10:
Tiffany Ann (Feathers) Alexander, 38
September 10, 2023
Tiffany Ann Alexander, 38, of Austin, Texas, suddenly passed from this life on September 5, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on September 9:
Rebekah Lee Thomas, 38
September 9, 2023
Rebekah Lee Thomas of New Braunfels, Texas, passed away peacefully on Thursday, September 7, 2023 at the age of 38 following a ferocious battle with breast cancer.
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Reported on September 8:
Jeffrey Ryan Hipolito, 37
September 8, 2023
Austin, Texas - Our beloved Jeffrey Ryan Hipolito, 37, was called to our Heavenly Father on Saturday September 2, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Jedidiah James Bruner, 47
September 8, 2023
Jedidiah James Bruner of Buda, Texas, passed away surrounded by his family on September 3, 2023 after a year-long battle with cancer. He leaves behind his loving wife Leslie and two sons, Evan and Justin.
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Reported on September 3:
Lawrence "Larry" Vincent Vargas, 59
September 3, 2023
Our angel from Heaven, Larry Vargas, lent to us by God for 59 years, fell asleep in the arms of Our Lord Jesus Christ on August 30, 2023, at home, with his family by his side in Kyle, Texas. In 2023, he was diagnosed with liver disease, despite never drinking alcohol. After months of fighting the disease, he entered hospice and passed peacefully in his sleep.
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Reported on September 2:
Newell Wayne King, 56
September 2, 2023
Newell Wayne King passed away on August 29, 2023, at the age of 56. He was born on November 4, 1966, in Austin, Texas, where he grew up. He attended Austin ISD schools and in 1990, he graduated with a Bachelor’s degree in Finance from the University of Texas-Austin while also having been a four-year member of the Texas Longhorn Band.
No cause of death reported.
It is very apparent King’s death was sudden when reading his wife's Facebook page:
https://www.facebook.com/roxmhall
Reported on September 1:
Santiago Zamora, 1 day
September 1, 2023
Santiago Zamora
No cause of death reported.
Reported on August 30:
Andrew Jazem "AJ" Gray, 36
August 30, 2023
It is with deepest/profound sadness that our family announces the passing of our beloved son/brother/uncle Andrew. He departed on August 23, 2023, while sleeping peacefully in his Austin, Texas, home.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on August 24:
Randy "Bubba" Ates Jr., 30
August 24, 2023
Austin, Texas - Randy "Bubba" Ates Jr., a man who, in his short but vibrant life, brought lots of laughter and joy to his family and friends. Bubba was a proud graduate of Del Valle High School and after high school served in the United States Army. Randy was an expert thrift shopper with a love specifically for Goodwill. He had a knack for finding the best deals and the quirkiest items. His family ties were as strong as the Georgia Bulldogs (Go Dawgs), and he had a way of making every family gathering feel like a comedy central roast. With his quick wit and sharp humor, he could turn even the most mundane family dinner into a night of laughter and joy.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on August 20:
Mary Alice Garcia, 40
August 20, 2023
Mary Alice Garcia of Kyle, Texas, passed away on August 11, 2023, at the age of 40. She was born on January 20, 1983, in Austin, Texas where she grew up.
Garcia died of a heart attack:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/mary-alice-garcia-memorial-fund-and-family-aid
Reported on August 18:
Dreylon D. D. Clark, 24
August 18, 2023
Austin, Texas - Dreylon D. D. Clark, age 24, passed away on Thursday, August 10, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Mealtrain states: On August 10, 2023 the Clark Family lost their beloved son/brother unexpectedly. His aunt also speaks about being devastated when she found out:
https://www.facebook.com/dorian.mcclellan
Reported on August 16:
Tailar Kai Matthews, 26
August 16, 2023
Tailar Kai Matthews, born August 31, 1996, was the only child of Portia D. Matthews in San Antonio, Texas. Tailar was “the sweetest” as described by her family and friends. Today, we remember a sweet, kind, and beautiful soul who touched the lives of all that knew her. Our beloved Tailar, (Tai-Tai to those who knew her well) graduated from Warren High School, she attended and graduated from Northwest Vista college where she received an Associate of Arts degree then Tailar also attended UTSA where she graduated with her Bachelor of Arts. With determination, she went on to pursue and earn her Master of Social Work degree, from UTSA, in June 2023. Tailar was looking forward to pursuing a career in social work, enhancing the lives of others while making the world a better place; one heart at a time.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on August 14:
Adela Violetta Rodriguez, 2 months
August 14, 2023
Our beloved Adela Violetta Rodriguez, was called home to our heavenly Father on Wednesday, August 9, 2023. Baby Adela is survived by her heartbroken parents.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on August 8:
Michael Jerwalden Scott, 42
August 8, 2023
It is with heavy hearts and profound sadness that we announce the passing of a beloved father, devoted son, and cherished friend, Michael Jerwalden Scott. Our “Mikey” departed this world on August 6th, 2023, leaving behind a legacy of amazing cooking, laughter, and treasured memories.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on August 6:
Michael Wayne Calnan, 49
August 6, 2023
Austin, Texas - Michael Wayne Calnan attended Texas State Technical College in Waco and studied auto mechanics. On weekends, he would return to Austin to work at Wally's Burger Express or Macaroni Grill and dance until dawn downtown. After completing his studies at TSTC, Mike moved home to Austin and began his career "turning wrenches." His career took him from Jiffy Lube to Yellow Cab to Covert Jeep and finally to the City of Austin where he worked his way up to Fleet Services Supervisor. He married in 2007. For sixteen years, they lived, loved, and shared all of the joys and heartaches that married life can bring. He was her husband, best friend, and hero.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on August 4:
Pedro "Petey" Daniel Casiano, 27
August 4, 2023
Austin, Texas - Pedro "Petey" Daniel Casiano, age 27, passed away on Saturday, July 29, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
A GoFundMe mentions "sudden death they weren't prepared for”:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-honor-our-beloved-petey-batistecasiano
Reported on August 2:
Ken Edwards, 64
August 2, 2023
Ken Edwards of Austin, TX, unexpectedly passed away on July 31, 2023. Ken attended the University of Texas at Austin majoring in Electrical Engineering. He went on to earn an MBA at Texas State University. During his 30-year career as a Marketing/Business Development Manager, Ken worked for Intel, Motorola, AMD, and other comparable companies. His career involved frequent travel to places such as China, Japan, India, and Europe. He won various awards for technical publications and team achievements.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on July 21:
Cynthia Lynn Hazelwood, 31
July 21, 2023
Cynthia Lynn Hazelwood, 31, of Bastrop, Texas, passed away peacefully Tuesday, July 18, 2023. Jason joined her at the hotel where they worked together for seven months. Texas continuously called to the both of them and they decided to make the move back to Bastrop. Jason and Cynthia became engaged and were to be married in October of 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on July 20:
Lauren Levenson Coffey, 38
July 20, 2023
Lauren Elyse (Levenson) Coffey passed away peacefully in Austin, Texas, on July 16, 2023. She was surrounded by her loving parents, sister, husband, aunt, and uncle. She was just a month beyond her 38th birthday, taken from us far too soon by breast cancer. She received a Bachelor of Arts in Biology from Southwestern University and a Master of Physician Assistant (PA) Studies from UT Medical Branch at Galveston. She married Grant Coffey on February 10, 2018. Lauren took pride in her work as a PA and her patients loved her thoughtful and caring approach.
Reported on July 18:
Benjamin Andrew Falk, 34
July 18, 2023
Benjamin Andrew Falk of Austin, Texas, passed away unexpectedly on July 15, 2023, in Austin, Texas at the young age of 34.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on July 17:
Eva Marie Govea-Buentello, 38
July 17, 2023
Our beloved angel Eva Marie Govea-Buentello of Leander, Texas, became an eternal Angel for all her family and friends when she was suddenly called home on Thursday July 6, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on July 10:
Stephen Larry “Steve” Runyon, 64
July 10, 2023
Stephen Larry “Steve” Runyon passed away from a heart attack on July 4, 2023. He spent most of his life in Austin, Texas. Steve graduated from Boca Raton High School in 1976. He went to Georgia Tech, where he received his degree in electrical engineering in 1980. Afterwards, he moved back to follow in his father's footsteps, working at IBM for 30 years until he retired, earning a master's degree from UT Austin along the way.
Reported on July 9:
Belen Cantu-Rivas, 1 day
July 9, 2023
Austin, Texas - Belen Cantu-Rivas, age 0 days, passed away on Thursday, July 6, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on July 8:
Barry Leonard Brandenburg, 69
July 8, 2023
Barry Leonard Brandenburg passed away unexpectedly on July 5, 2023 at the age of 69. In 1984, he moved to Austin, TX, for a graduate program in Classical Languages at the University of Texas. His dedication to the pursuit of knowledge led to his career in public education. He taught middle school Latin for the Eanes Independent School District for thirty years, and continued tutoring after his retirement. “Magister”, as his students affectionately called him, passed along his love of learning and languages with a strong dose of good humor.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on July 6:
Amari Kash Cabrera, 1 day
July 6, 2023
Amari Kash Cabrera, age 0 days, of Austin, Texas, passed away on Saturday, June 17, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on July 5:
Jennifer Livengood, 44
July 5, 2023
Jennifer Livengood unexpectedly passed away on July 1, 2023 and passed peacefully during the night. Jennifer held jobs in different industries until 2009 when she stumbled into the Insurance industry. She began as a Receptionist and quickly moved up to handle Commercial Lines New Business accounts of all sizes. In 2021, she took a leadership position within her agency. after spending many years learning business and industry. Jennifer married Marcus Livengood on April 11, 2013 and was known to say that was the best decision she had ever made in her life. She always said marriage is hard but not when you are in love with your best friend. Together, they raised their daughter (Kaleigh). She also raised three amazing cats, Macey, Miles, and Marley.
No cause of death reported.
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Reported on June 5:
Dr. James (Jim) Roy Holcomb, III, 69
June 30, 2023
Dr. James (Jim) Roy Holcomb, III, joined his Heavenly Father in paradise on Tuesday, June 27th. He passed peacefully surrounded by his family, after a heroic battle with pancreatic cancer.
Reported on June 26:
Cherie Louise Henderson, 60
June 26, 2023
Cherie Louise Riemer Henderson, a resident of Austin, Texas, was born on July 25, 1962, and passed away on June 20, 2023, at the age of 60. She was a gifted pianist, winning multiple competitions in her youth. Cherie was an exceptional daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, teacher, and friend who excelled at everything she put her mind to. She devoted her life to her family and, in particular, her husband and two daughters.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on June 16:
Robert Morris Wiley III, 52
June 16, 2023
Robert Morris Wiley III, age 52, of Bastrop, Texas, passed away on June 14, 2023, peacefully in his home. He was a police officer for Sun City-Austin, Smithville Texas, Lockhart Texas and Bastrop County 911 Operator. He medically retired as a Dispatch Operator for Bastrop County for a total of 18+ years. He was a former member of the Bastrop Fire Department and served the department with honor.
No cause of death reported.
Frances Louise Jaster, 1 day
June 16, 2023
Frances Louise Jaster, age 0 days, passed away on Wednesday, June 14, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on June 15:
Liam Yadier Noyola, 29 days
June 15, 2023
Liam Yadier Noyola, age 29 days, of Dale, Texas, passed away on Monday, June 12, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on June 5:
Victoria Renee Moseley, 35
June 5, 2023
Victoria Renee Moseley was born July 2, 1987 in Austin, Texas, to JoAnn Gilbert Moseley and William Morris Moseley III. Vic attended Everest Institute where she received her Medical Assistant Certification and went on to work in various doctors’ offices and clinics. Vic leaves to cherish her memory Daughter, Senaiya AnnMarie Morales.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on June 3:
Emanuel Conejo Vasquez, 1 day
June 3, 2023
Emanuel Conejo Vasquez, age 0 days, of Austin, Texas, passed away on Wednesday, May 31, 2023.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on May 25:
April Sue Blocker, 56
May 25, 2023
It is with profound sadness that we announce the unexpected passing of April Sue Blocker on May 19, 2023, at home, in Red Rock, TX. Born on April 13, 1967, in Corpus Christi, TX, April left a lasting impression on everyone who was fortunate enough to know her.
No cause of death reported.
Reported on May 20:
Betty Candelaria, 57
May 20, 2023
Betty Candelaria, 57, of Bastrop, TX, passed away on May 18, 2023 in Bexar County. Betty Candelaria loved being around her family. She especially loved to cook and feed everyone. She was the Matriarch that brought everyone together.
No cause of death reported.
Wow, this week´s list is close to being on par with the weekly Canadian deaths.
These lists get longer every week.
Texas is overrepresented, especially Austin. Is 5G widespread there? I've heard it can provoke problems with people who have been jabbed with the poison.
May God rest their souls and bless and comfort their grieving families.
For those who compile these names, my sympathy to you as this is heart wrenching.